As the weather gets nicer, many of us feel the allure of just hanging out. We want to sit outside with friends and have a drink, go on long morning walks and catch up, enjoy the breezy night air. But where to go, and with whom' Modern life has become filled with 'establishments that are either too expensive for the average American or apparently designed to disincentivize lingering,' Allie Conti wrote in 2022. 'Think carefully curated faux dive bars that serve $15 beer-and-shot specials, or parks like New York's High Line that are built to be moved through in a linear fashion.' Conti makes the case for finding a 'third place''a no-frills spot for conversation and meeting new people that doesn't require spending a lot of money. If you find it but don't have anyone to go with, don't be afraid to step in alone. Conti did, and was thrilled to stumble upon the perfect hangout, almost like it had been waiting for her. I recently asked readers to share a photo of something that sparks...
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